As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisper, the season of Advent beckons Catholic families to prepare their hearts and homes for the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ. In this busy world, where commercialism often overshadows the true meaning of Christmas, there is no better time to turn to the Holy Family as an inspiring example of how to embrace the spirit of the season.
At the heart of the Holy Family's journey to Bethlehem was humility. Mary and Joseph embarked on a long and arduous journey while Mary was pregnant, and they ultimately found refuge in a humble stable. (Lk 2:4-7)
During Advent, families can embrace humility, which is often overlooked in our modern world of materialism and self-promotion. This might include volunteering at a local shelter, donating to those in need or simply choosing to live a simpler, more humble lifestyle during this season of preparation.
The Holy Family's strong bonds of love and support are evident in their journey and the challenges they faced. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our individual pursuits and neglect our familial relationships. To be like the Holy Family means to place the Lord and our family at the center of our lives.
During Advent, consider setting aside time for family prayer, reflection and activities that foster connection. Whether it's attending a Christmas play together, baking cookies as a family or spending quality time with loved ones, these moments can strengthen the bonds that make a family truly holy.
St. Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, is often seen as a model of obedience to God's will. When the angel appeared to him in a dream and instructed him to take Mary as his wife and care for the child conceived by the Holy Spirit, Joseph obeyed without hesitation. (Mt 1:20-25)
To be truly obedient to God means being open to His will in our own lives. This Advent season, perhaps families can reflect on what God might be calling them to do, and make a conscious effort to listen and respond obediently, just as St. Joseph did.
The Holy Family's search for shelter in Bethlehem, only to find none but a stable, teaches us about the virtue of hospitality. They welcomed the shepherds and the Magi with open hearts, despite their humble circumstances. (Mt 2:1-12)
During Advent, open your hearts and homes to friends, family … perhaps even those you may not know too well. Hosting a meal, inviting someone who may be lonely, or participating in charitable activities can all be ways to create a welcoming and warm environment, just as the Holy Family did in their own unique circumstances.
Mary, as the Mother of Jesus, is an exemplar of faith and prayer. She pondered the mysteries of God in her heart and found refuge in prayer during the most trying times. (Lk 2:19)
As Advent unfolds, parents can encourage their children to also seek refuge in prayer, just as Mary did. Create a sacred space in your home for prayer and reflection. Spend time together as a family meditating on the story of the Holy Family and its significance in your lives.
The most profound way to emulate the Holy Family in preparation for Christmas is to keep the birth of Christ at the center of the season. Amid the gift-giving and festivities, remember that Jesus is the ultimate gift to humanity.
In your family traditions, make sure to include the reading of the Nativity story from the Bible, attend Christmas Mass together and encourage children to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas.
The Holy Family offers us a timeless model of love, faith and humility during Advent and throughout the Christmas season. By looking to their extraordinary example of holiness, families can create a more meaningful and spiritually enriching Christmas celebration. In doing so, they not only honor the Holy Family but also draw closer to the true essence of Christmas — the birth of our savior, Jesus Christ.
By Andrea DePaola
Bookmark and visit NorwichDiocese.org/Advent for additional resources this Advent season.